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  1. Tamara Ericksen
    June 4, 2020 @ 1:26 pm

    So, I am commenting here because the Madanhire family is wanting to encourage travelers again to come to their village and when the people type in his name, they are getting my comments from 2019 and are scared to go as any are single travelers. So if you fall in this category, please give me a call and talk to me personally (801-368-9842), because I want to reassure you that 99% of my experience there was one of the most amazing experiences I have ever had and unfortunately, my post has eclipsed all of the good experiences I had in the minds of people who want to go. This family has so much to share with you that is positive and good. So, please call….
    Tamara

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    • JUST STOP
      March 5, 2021 @ 9:09 pm

      No. No one should go if there is a possibility of being raped. If what you said is half-true, you should NOT encourage others to put themselves in a dangerous situation.

      If you are claiming that 99% of your trip was wonderful, you’re either lying or still processing your trauma.

      As someone who was sexually assaulted, I can tell you it changes your entire life and casts a shadow over every single relationship you have.

      Get help and stop telling people to go somewhere where rape is a true threat.

      And stop posting your phone number. That isn’t safe either. A Google search literally shows your home address.

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  2. Tamara Ericksen
    June 13, 2019 @ 9:18 am

    For future readers because internet comments are pretty much permanent. Instead of getting scared and not traveling, just educate yourself. When you are in a situation you don’t understand, you won’t understand it when you are in it, so you will feel confused. Hindsight is the only way to learn. If you want to get ahead in this process, here’s some info you might want. 1. Educate yourself about the grooming process. 2. At anytime and anywhere in life, address the FIRST unwanted sexual comment, gesture, etc. either with that person if you are safe or with another adult who will address it head on with that person. It takes guts and knowledge to do this. After going through the process I have, though receiving very good support, the amount of uncomfortable feelings you may suffer to promptly and thoroughly address unwanted sexual situations even at their smallest indications is worth it.

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  3. Tamara Ericksen
    February 14, 2019 @ 8:52 am

    I stayed with Sekiwa’s family in Zimbabwe Africa. Though I enjoyed it, and at first I thought I had found paridise, If you are a girl you will not want to go there. I was raped the last night I was there in front of his wife. Please contact me for more info. His contact should be removed in my humble opinion

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    • Lara
      April 4, 2019 @ 12:57 pm

      Hi Tamara, would you be able to please give me more information on what sounds like an awful experience in Zimbabwe? As a solo female traveller planning a trip to get as far off the beaten path as possible in Africa, it would be really valuable to know more about what happened. Hope you’re okay. Thanks a lot

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      • Tamara Ericksen
        June 13, 2019 @ 7:56 am

        Hello you can call me at 801 368 9842 and we can talk. If you are planning on traveling I still would because if was such a wonderful experience, but I had no idea I was in a bad situation when it happened. Most situations like this are so complicated at so many levels, but with how much we have all gone through to talk openly about this and I’ve gotten the help I’ve needed, We’ve put it in hands of God and are moving on. Somehow, I could recommend still going. I’d just say to respond to your first gut feelings and keep safe.

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