Destination Weddings On the Rise

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By Jessica Taryn

People spend years and thousands of dollars trying to plan the perfect wedding.

Grisel and Jeff on the balcony of the Culzean Castle in Scotland. Photo from
Grisel and Jeff on the balcony of the Culzean Castle in Scotland. Photo from

In an attempt to please everyone’s family and friends, couples often forget what a wedding is truly about; celebrating love—not trying to satisfy or impress your 300 nearest and dearest.

Destination weddings have become a popular trend in travel. Why not travel to a place you and your fiancé have always dreamed of visiting to celebrate the beginning of your lives together?

What is the most unique destination you can imagine for your wedding?

Sara Shuman was married on the Greek island of Santorini. “Think big! You live only once… and when I ask myself what the very best place I can imagine going for my wedding is, I am definitely not going to think of Disneyland,” she said.

Family and Friends

“People are out of their element and more in the moment. I feel like traditional weddings are hostage situations. People are fighting and everyone wants things to go their way. I don’t like a name tag on a table where I have to sit; my wedding was fun and less traditional,” said Shuman.

There are always going to be guests who are not able to attend your wedding and with a destination wedding, that list of no-shows may end up a bit longer, which you have to be willing to accept. While many couples may be upset that some of their friends and family are not there to share their special day, many believe it is a worthwhile sacrifice to create such a memorable occasion in a unique, magnificent destination. You may also need to accept that attendees will be spending more on travel and may not spend as much on wedding gifts.

“In an elopement, it isn’t common for family and friends to join the couple. However, in a destination wedding, it is very common. I wouldn’t say the wedding ‘lacks’ something if family and friends aren’t included, however. It’s a personal choice every couple has to make for themselves based on circumstance.

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The right setting creates lasting memories

Robyn Pollman, president of was married in the French Quarter of New Orleans. “In our own instance, the main reason we decided not to go through with the ‘big, traditional church wedding’ was that we wouldn’t have time on our big day with the close friends and family.

Instead, by taking them with us, we weren’t just limited to brief moments during one day. We had an entire weekend to celebrate together with everyone. It made it much more special, intimate and memorable,” she said.

What the Weddings Cost

Sara and Peter spent a total of about $2000 on their Santorini wedding and considered it significant savings from what they would have spent had they stayed home and had a big traditional wedding.

Of course if you opt to pay for everyone’s airfare and accommodations you are going to end up with a much larger bill, not to mention a headache from playing travel agent while in the midst of trying to plan such an important event.

Many couples who choose to have destination weddings block off rooms in a hotel and have their guests take care of the rest, and it seems as if most close family members and friends do not object. They get to travel to a unique destination and share their vacation with their loved ones. The wedding is an added perk.

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Some choose to marry on a cruise ship

Planners of Weddings

An important component of planning a destination wedding is keeping an open mind. Things are not going to be done exactly as planned. You are in a foreign place and part of the delight of traveling is learning and embracing the culture of the place where you choose to spend your special day.

“If you’re a person who has had it in your mind what your wedding is going to look like down to the flowers and the color of the napkins then it’s going to be incredibly stressful to plan a destination wedding. You can’t try to control every aspect or you’re going to be disappointed. You have to just leave it to the culture of the country you are visiting. I wasn’t expecting my hair to look a certain way or my floral arrangements to be exactly as I imagined them. Part of the fun of it was just going with the flow,” said Shuman.

Wedding planners are also available to help ease the burden of planning a destination wedding. They are able to do everything for you — choosing someone to perform the marriage; helping choose a location; contacting hair and makeup artists, florists photographers and caterers; and assisting you with the formalities of the marriage.

“Whether a destination wedding takes much more planning than an ‘at home’ wedding can depend on the size of the guest list, the location itself, whether or not a wedding coordinator is used (ours helped us get our wedding together in less than five weeks total), the legal marriage requirements of the destination chosen (documents needed, waiting periods, etc.), and the depth of detail the bride and groom select for their ceremony,” said Pollman.

Whether it be a cliffside in Greece, an ice hotel in Sweden, a beach in Fiji, a castle in Scotland, a temple in Thailand, or any other destination, a wedding abroad can be just what you need to perfect your special day.

Under a Santorini Sunset

They took their vows beneath the magnificent Santorini sunset.
They took their vows beneath the magnificent Santorini sunset.

Vibrant colors filled the sky setting the perfect ambiance for the occasion. Guests smiled and cried as the couple was united on a picturesque Greek cliffside that flawlessly reflected the sun. They were married in a poolside wedding overlooking the sparkling river and an old windmill twirled softly above. Brightly colored roses were designed in beautiful bouquets and dusted the ground around the couple.

When the mayor finished speaking, the bride and groom released a handful of balloons over the cliff side to signify the end of the ceremony; it was celebration time.

Following an age-old Greek wedding tradition, the bride, Sara Shuman, mounted her white donkey, with red roses around its head, and her new husband, Peter Duke, got on a larger brown one.

The warm breeze passed through the couple’s hair as the donkeys trotted through the town’s narrow cobblestone roads.

They were led by a procession of Greek musicians strumming on their instruments in honor of the newlywed bride and groom. Fireworks sizzled above sending the energy of the moment into the sky.

Santorini sunset wedding

Townspeople gathered on the streets cheering, taking pictures, and throwing rice and flowers at the couple. “We were like rock stars. It was an unbelievable feeling,” said Shuman.

It was a moment never to be forgotten. “It seemed like the world slowed down for a minute- everything was just perfect,” she said.

A Pretty Cool Wedding

The frosty building emitted a fresh, wintry smell. While it was below freezing inside, the warmth of the crowd brought upon the sensation of a perfect spring day. The snow isolated the couple and made them feel all alone in the world, only in the company of their closest family members, friends, and of course each other. Though there was no artificial light, the purity and brightness of the surrounding snow illuminated the room.

Katja in an ice chair at her wedding in the Ice Hotel in Sweden.
Katja in an ice chair at her wedding in the Ice Hotel in Sweden.

Katja and Viking seemed to have the right idea. The two were joined together in holy matrimony in the Ice Hotel in Sweden.

“The first time I heard about the Ice Hotel, I remember thinking that if I ever got married that’s where it would be. Years later, when I asked Katja, she never once disagreed.”

“The chapel with its cross of clear ice was breathtaking,” said Viking.

Music played from a battery-powered CD player, as there was no electricity in the hotel. The snowy walls created the perfect echo to complement the couple’s favorite melodies.

“It was a fantastic day! The Ice Hotel with its impressive ice sculptures, the pretty Ice Chapel with simple, but beautiful decorations and last but not least: the happiness of getting married to the man I love in this magic atmosphere, surrounded by all our families and friends,” said Katja.

Sami Boots

While the groom modeled a traditional American tuxedo, the bride wore Lappish or Sami boots made out of reindeer fur that was traditional a century or two ago. Katja wore a short maroon cape over her gown to keep her warm. The bridesmaids wore traditional Swedish National dresses that the couple rented. The men wore tuxedos with tails, and of course, long johns underneath for everyone.

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The chapel outside the entrance of the Ice Hotel in Sweden. Photo from

The wedding meal included Reindeer Carpaccio with walnut pesto and fresh cheese, followed by filet of char with creme of lavaret caviar. For dessert, the couple and their guests dined on cloudberry parfait with lingonberries.

The Hoglunds and their guests drank from glasses made of ice, sat in ice chairs, created ice sculptures, partied in the Absolut Ice bar and finally, thawed out in an outdoor Jacuzzi.

Katja and Viking continued their festivities, alone, a few days later, on a honeymoon to South Africa. “Get away from home, do something different! It will be an experience never to be forgotten,” Viking said.

Unforgettable Fiji

Renee and Aaron were married in Fiji on a unique island called Qamea, at the Qamea Resort and Spa, the only one on that island. They got ready in their ‘bures’, or Fijian style cottages. The couple had picked the most beautiful, romantic destination they could imagine.

Exchanging rings in Fiji -   Unforgettable Honeymoons
Exchanging rings in Fiji –   Unforgettable Honeymoons

Renee wore a simple white dress, brought to life by the brightly colored Fijian lei around her neck and her red and yellow bouquet that matched the attire of her band and choir.

Aaron stood in the warm sand, waiting for Renee at the wedding site. He was surrounded by vibrant green palm trees, under a bright blue sky and the hot sun beat down on his tanned skin. He faced the glistening ocean and listened to the sound of the rippling water as he watched his stunning bride glide toward him.

The couple was united in a remote area of Fiji where very few tourists travel. “The island has six traditional villages, and villagers live like they did 200 years ago. The island is completely unspoiled,” said Renee.

Villagers at the Wedding

Having the Fijian villagers in attendance was the perfect touch to top off their wedding. “Aaron and I love the beauty of Fiji but mostly the sweetness and innocence of the Fijian people. We felt that getting married at Qamea would be the closest place to paradise on earth, surrounded by people who are some of the warmest and friendliest we had ever met anywhere,” Renee said.

Renee was carried down the beach in a chariot by six Fijian warriors. She was welcomed by a five-piece band, and a 12-member choir, not dressed in tuxedos and gowns, but instead wearing bright blue and red flower print shirts to blend in with the vivacious scenery.

The bride carried in a chariot by warriors
The bride carried in a chariot by warriors

Making quite the entrance, Renee and Aaron took their vows as Aaron’s long, loose curls flowed behind him in the wind. He wore a Fijian chief’s costume made of traditional Tapa cloth in a bold black, brown, and white pattern. His outfit coordinated with the skirts of the warriors and was offset by the brightly colored leis around his neck and arms that matched his bride’s.

The two exchanged rings, and their marriage was made official by a minister in a traditional Christian service, followed by a spiritual Fijian ‘Kava’ ceremony, featuring the country’s ritual music and dance, and a special Fijian beverage.

Following the service, an entire tribe sang and danced for the bride and groom for a whole hour. A guest appearance from a famous Fijian folk singer, Jale Mareau, was a perfect surprise and he sang a special song to the couple to make the day truly enchanting.

A Scottish Castle

The day that Jeff Prosise and Grisel Gonzalez arrived in South Ayrshire, Scotland, the sky was a crystal blue and the bright orange sun sparkled above. The couple was thrilled with their wedding location and could not have imagined changing a thing. The three-story castle was magical, and the ocean below was exactly what the couple had imagined.

“I remember a lot of deer on the castle’s property. The deer came right up to us and we pet them and they nuzzled our hands, and I remember the gorgeous gardens… I was especially drawn to the armory room in the castle. All types of weapons lined the walls in really cool patterns,” she said.

Inviting Blue to Ugly Grey Skies

However, the next morning when they woke up on their wedding day the sky had changed from an inviting blue to an ugly, unwelcoming grey. The once cloudless sky was packed with a thick haze. As the two arrived at the castle the sky opened up and it began to pour. Disheartened, the couple went their separate ways to get ready for the ceremony.

The round salon was prepared with Scottish wildflowers. The smell of lavender drifted through the castle. About ten minutes before the ceremony began, the rain stopped and the warm sun and blue sky that the couple had wished for returned.

“If it’s lucky to be rained on, then we got it and if it’s lucky to have a wedding on a sunny day, we got that too. So, no matter what, I consider us lucky,” said Grisel.

When the wedding was over the couple and their guests took pictures on the castle’s balcony overlooking the water, and then took a long walk on the beach. It began to drizzle and as the couple got back into the car to return to their suite in the castle, it began to pour again.

“Somehow, for that two hours, miraculously it was beautiful and clear,” Grisel said in tears, recalling her special day.

Jeff and Grisel’s wedding destination “kind of happened by accident,” she said. “We got engaged at the end of March and I love to travel so I always have a trip planned. Jeff and I had already planned to go to Malta (an island in the Mediterranean) in August and we didn’t want to do the long engagement and long marriage thing and didn’t want to have a really big wedding, so we decided to get married before we went.

We both love the beach so we looked into Laguna (California), but that didn’t end up working out so we started thinking maybe we should get married in Malta, but I didn’t find anywhere there I was really comfortable with.”

To get to Malta, you have to travel through a European city, so the couple chose London and decided they would get married there, but after researching marriage laws, they realized that a 21-day residency period was required in order to legalize a marriage in England. Jeff and Grisel ended up driving to Scotland, chauffeured by a Scottish wedding planner they had found online. He had helped the couple find the castle near the water where they wed.

The couple chose Culzean Castle for its charming surroundings, and their ability to spend their wedding night in the actual castle.

Because they had planned their wedding in such a short amount of time and were not able to provide a lot of notice to their friends and family, few were able to join them in Scotland. But after their honeymoon, when they returned back home, the newlyweds prepared a beautiful reception in California for their friends and family that could not make it to the actual wedding.

Taking Vows in Thailand

Traditional Northern Thai feast. Photo from
Traditional Northern Thai feast. Photo from

Alex Young and Eleanor Bell rose with the shimmering sun in Northern Thailand and their wedding day began around 4:45 a.m. Their wedding planner, Jit, escorted them to the local marketplace, teaching them the Buddhist ways as the day went on.

Alex and Eleanor bought rice, sweets, and flowers to offer to nine monks, the lucky number in the Thai culture. It is customary on the day of a Thai Buddhist wedding for the couple to give early morning offerings, known as ‘merit making’ while the monks make their daily rounds.

Eleanor got ready for the wedding with the assistance of a hairdresser, Jit, and Alex’s sister, Megan, and then reunited with her soon-to-be husband, and Megan’s boyfriend, Nik, to register the marriage at the District Office.

The couple then went to visit a head monk in a dazzling Thai temple to receive a Buddhist blessing.

“We also brought him some offerings from home; a pot of Alex’s mom’s homemade marmalade and some shortbread from Scotland. After that, we released nine birds from a basket and nine fish into a local river, again for merit-making,” explained Eleanor.

Mid-afternoon, the four headed to Jit’s new, traditional teak house in Doi Saket, just outside of Chiang Mai, where the main ceremony was held.

While Eleanor changed into her wedding gown, Alex and Nik joined the musicians on the grounds, where they waited for the local elders to arrive to offer blessings to the couple and give them advice for the future.

“I waited inside the house. I wasn’t quite sure what was happening, but I could hear a very noisy procession of whooping and celebrating as everyone made their way to the house. Alex had to pass through a series of three symbolic gates (made of rope), each of which had a gatekeeper.

The gatekeeper’s job was to ask Alex questions and generally give him a hard time before he passed each one. In return, he had to give each one an envelope with some money inside. Traditionally, if the gatekeepers are not happy with the answers (or the money they receive), they can block the way for the groom, thereby not allowing the marriage to proceed. Fortunately, all was ok for us!” Eleanor said.

Once the elders arrived, the knot-tying ceremony began. Each elder tied a piece of string around Alex and Eleanor’s left wrists, and another piece of string connected the couple’s heads symbolizing the two being bonded together. They were then led into the bedroom by two of the elders who had been married for over 50 years, and they say down on the bed, which confirmed their marriage.

She Had Two Wedding Dresses

Eleanor had two different wedding dresses. For the daytime ceremony, she wore a bright, shiny, blue gown, with sheer blue fabric on her arms. A gold necklace and belt brought together the outfit and she resembled royalty. At night, for the main ceremony, Eleanor changed into a gold and cream-colored dress made of a rich, glittering fabric that tied over one shoulder leaving the other bare. She wore a gold and floral necklace to top off her stunning wedding attire.

Alex wore a white Thai suit that consisted of a pair of baggy cotton pants, and a shirt that was loose and airy and buttoned up the front. He looked pure and wore a scarf-like sash over one shoulder in traditional Northern Thai Lanna Style.

Then the party began. Jit’s sister had prepared a luxurious meal, and the elders, as well as Jit’s husband and children and the musicians joined the couple and their family for a feast.

After dinner, Jit had prepared a breathtaking fireworks ceremony. Huge fireworks exploded above in celebration.

“Next came the fire balloons. We had no idea what these were. I imagined regular balloon-sized fireworks, and we were not prepared for the giant items that then appeared. They were huge paper lanterns, which when filled with the heat were let off into the sky, with fireworks going off at the bottom,” Eleanor said.

The couple and their guests made toasts and had a few drinks before heading back to their room for the night.

“Jit prepared a really amazing wedding for us. I was surprised by how many beautiful flowers she had arranged for us, and there were lots of special touches, including a surprise massage for both of us the next morning!” she said.

Neither Alex nor Eleanor are very religious, however, they “have a respect for Buddhist thought and therefore thought it would be apt” for them, Eleanor said.

“Getting married in Thailand was very reasonable for us and good value for money. Some big chain hotels in Thailand offer weddings at inflated prices, which are probably rather cheesy. Jit’s company Northern Thailand Weddings offers something much more personal and traditional,” Eleanor said.

The newlyweds continued their travel to Vietnam for their honeymoon.

There are so many options! Look into other unique wedding destinations, like a palace in India.

Jessica Taryn ZolotorofeJessica Taryn Zoltoroff is an attorney in New Jersey and a former intern at GoNOMAD.

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4 thoughts on “Destination Weddings On the Rise

  1. Was looking for the perfect wedding destination for my daughters marriage. This article was so informative. I was rounding up a cost effective place where family and friends can be accompanied. Thailand, Fiji and Colombo were on the list. I need to get help from professional wedding planners. Wish me luck people. Please visit at

  2. These destination weddings all sound dreamy! My youngest sister is thinking about trying a destination wedding. She might look into a more tropical or oceanside setting since that’s her interest.

  3. This article is very nice. I agree with you that destination weddings are in high demand. Every couple wishes to have a dream wedding at their dream destination. At that time wedding planners help to fulfill this dream. People prefer historic places and natural places more for the wedding. It’s the day of remembrance for a life time. Also, your video of Austria travel is amazing. Thanks for sharing this article.

  4. It’s true, destination weddings are really a thing now. I dream of having one too in the near future! I’m dreaming of a beach wedding or in Africa like the one in this blog But I guess, the wedding is not really important but the marriage. Still, though, every girl dreams of an unforgettable big day. So glad to hear that many couples have done it and they loved how it turned out. The tips in this article are also a huge help! I’m so looking forward to mine soon!

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