Iran: Women Travelers in a Misunderstood Land

Visiting the most beautiful city in Iran, Isfahan, with its magnificent mosque complex.
Visiting the most beautiful city in Iran, Isfahan, with its magnificent mosque complex.

Face to Face with the Enemy? A Women’s Group Visits Iran

By Phyllis Stoller

At the end of 2013, The US and Iran signed an agreement that freezes some Iranian nuclear projects and lowers some US sanctions.

A Zoroastrian burial site in desert in Iran.
A Zoroastrian burial site in desert in Iran.

The result is an increase in Americans visiting Iran despite our lack of diplomatic relations and frequent State Dept cautions/warnings.

As The Women’s Travel Group found out in November 2016, travel to Iran is easier and less intimidating than any of us expected.

How to Get to Iran from the US?

As of December 2016, there were no direct flights between the two nations; travelers have one-stop choices: Turkish Airlines, Emirates, European carriers, etc.

British Airways began its London-Tehran route in September (BA is still waiting for culturally acceptable female uniforms so women can work that route).

The flight is so new that check-in personnel in Heathrow thought a visa stamp for Ethiopia was for Iran. For us it is a really big deal to go to Iran, for others, it’s business as usual.

Empty Flights

At Persepolis, the ruins tell the story of the many world leaders who came there to see Darius the Great, the third king of the Persian Achaemenid Empire.
At Persepolis, the ruins tell the story of the many world leaders who came there to see Darius the Great, the third king of the Persian Achaemenid Empire.

Some carriers might discontinue the route since Iranians cannot pay with overseas credit cards and the flights remain pretty empty. Fares are as low as $500 from London to Tehran. The flight is just five hours door to door.

Americans need a visa stamped in the passport.

To secure a visa, the visitor must present an authorization number from a valid tour company, a filled out application, and fees. Our group went through MIR Travel in Seattle, who have been offering trips to Iran for years and know the scoop.

In Iran, MIR contracts with Pasargad Tours in Tehran. We found out afterward that almost every US tour goes through Pasargad, from lower-priced trips like ours or top luxury tours–all staying in the same hotels, eating the same meals, and seeing the same sights.

The US State Dept. issues frequent warnings to heed, and journalists, dual nationals, and some others should be wary. A friend from The Times shared her three-day press trip experience with us, lots of surveillance, lots of arrival questions, she had to wear the headscarf even on remote country roads.

In Tehran Airport, Americans are segregated for private questioning. 

Some in our group found the interview probing; others thought the officer was practicing English. Whatever your welcome, you need to follow the protocol carefully. Women must don headscarves and long-sleeved knee-length garments before deplaning otherwise be turned away.

A Tough Relationship

‘Know Before You Go’ that Iran and the US have had a tough relationship, due to the 1940’s CIA and British oil-based involvement, support of the Shah, the coup in 1953 and the hostage crisis, Israel and Iraq.

Our support for Israel is a sore point, tourists who have visited Israel within a year from date of departure from Iran will be denied visas.

So you need to make some internal moral decisions before you go.

Anti US posters are a common site in Tehran, especially near the former US embassy.
Anti US posters are a common sight in Tehran, especially near the former US embassy.

Downtown posters in Tehran will horrify Americans with photos of a skeletal Obama, Americans murdering civilians etc. Your non-VPN phone might be listened to and, if you visit Iranians, you might be followed. Social media sites fail; some display error messages like CRIMINAL CONTENT. 

You must check the date of Ashura, a holiday when Iranians demonstrate angrily against America, and Shia heroes are memorialized. It’s on Saturday, September 30, so plan accordingly!

Once you check into your hotel, (we stayed at the luxury Espinas in downtown Tehran) you feel normalcy. However, the spa and gym are only for men, there is no alcohol, no cashier for Americans (you must pay for any extras via the tour company) and everything down to shower caps is made locally and looks a tiny bit odd.

The embargo has helped with employment since everything is made in Iran.

Welcoming People

But in reality, Iranians recognize you as foreign, ask where you are from, then “Welcome you back”. Even women in head to toe black stare then smile. One woman announced quite boldly in the public market in Shiraz “You should have been here with the Shah, Iran was nicer”

Guides will talk openly if they know it is allowed. Locals in museums might ask you what you think. However, around walls and on bridges are enormous posters of soldiers killed in the Iran-Iraq war.

You Are Jewish?

Persepolis, which some say is the most dramatic ancient site in the world.
Persepolis, which some say is the most dramatic ancient site in the world.

You are Jewish? The public image is ‘enemy Zionist’; the private is many Jews do well in Iran and our guide told us her social group was multi-religious.

You will see anti-Israel posters, with burning flags and genocide scenes.

If you want to visit a Jewish family, get very detailed instructions ahead of time, or do not visit. You can get both yourself and your hosts in deep trouble. In fact, visiting any private home is touchy and you might be followed from the hotel.

Cities are safe, clean and there is no begging or street haggling. Tehran has some bad areas that tourists are unlikely to visit. Women (in scarves of course) can wander solo around downtown Tehran and its parks.

Except for the terrifying traffic, wandering again feels normal. Many people speak some English.

Shop keepers are thrilled to help you and happy to take dollars. Purchases might be $3 scarves, nuts, halvah candy. Carpet and fashion stores might have overseas banking and then will accept a credit card. Remember, no US credit card company is doing business as of 2016 with Iran, and even Barclays in the UK refuses to open there. Cash is king. 

In reality, Iranians immediately recognize foreigners. They will ask you where you are from, then “Welcome you back.” Even women

Yazd, Isfahan, Shiraz and Kashan

Imam Square in Isfahan, Iran.
Imam Square in Isfahan, Iran.

Iran’s main tourist cities are Tehran, Yazd, Shiraz, Isfahan, and Kashan. All have excellent historic and modern hotels, good roads, airports, and restaurants. Snow-capped mountains in the distance, even in Tehran, make Iran especially beautiful.

Tourist sites are well maintained with a pride built on never being a colony.

Bathrooms are clean enough, but for squatters only.

Food is excellent, varied, hearty, a mix of kabobs and what Ghenghis Khan might have eaten–stews, thick soups. Restaurants cater to locals and a few tourists. There is no alcohol served–officially that is. 

Oddly, just like during the US prohibition, religious groups of Armenians and Jews are allowed alcohol for religious ceremonies.

Tehran has internationally great museums for archaeology, modern art, glass, ceramics, and carpets.

Yazd, a city famous for its wind-tunnels, is also a favorite choice for Iranians to visit for their honeymoons.
Yazd, a city famous for its wind-tunnels, is also a favorite choice for Iranians to visit for their honeymoons.

Visiting the former Shah’s palace in the north of the city is a hoot, with a very dated Princess telephone and everything left just as it was in 1978 when the Shah left the country for medical treatment in the US. 


Yazd is a quaint Zoroastrian desert city. Shiraz and Isfahan are must-sees. From Shiraz, you drive to Persepolis, potentially the most complete archaeological site in the world. 

Persepolis was begun by Darius the Great around 515 BC and you need half a day there to appreciate the palaces, friezes, lion and griffin statues, even cuneiform tablets written 2500 years ago explaining who visited Darius and why.

In 1971, a massive and grotesquely expensive 2500 anniversary of the Shah’s supposed dynasty took place in Persepolis. It was this extravaganza with food for thousands flown in from Maxime’s in Paris that helped to turn the country against the Shah and his family.

Spices in a bazaar in Iran.
Spices in a bazaar in Iran.

In Isfahan, you are in an ancient city full of blue-tiled mosques, palaces, squares, Armenian churches, and world-famous Imam Square. Kashan is an ancient trading center, with a movie set bazaar.

Bazaars are beyond wonderful, clean not pushy and fabulous: carpets, clothing, gems, jewelry, ceramics, turquoise, pistachios, caviar, scarves.

Climate is important–go during our winter. November is perfect. Water is important, drink only bottled water and lots of it. Food is clean at good spots and you can eat the local salad. Fruit is amazing.

Security in Iran is key–do not call or text controversial or private financial information. Do not confront your guide or driver with political questions. Expect to be followed.

Read a lot before you go so as not to be misled by Iran’s physical normalcy. MIR did an excellent job for our group as did the Iranian company, Parsagad Tours.

Go soon in case the treaty changes with our new President Trump, inflation rises with an influx of foreign money or flights are cut back.

For more information about The Women’s Travel Group’s next trip to Iran November 2017, contact us or look at

Phyllis Stoller
Phyllis Stoller

Phyllis Stoller has lived and worked in England, France and Switzerland and resides in New York. Phyllis founded The Women’s Travel Club in 1992 (acquired 2007 by a large tour company) and The Women’s Travel Group in 2012. Both have won awards for quality small group tours to unusual places. 

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3 thoughts on “Iran: Women Travelers in a Misunderstood Land

  1. I have to agree with the previous commentator. I travelled as a single woman as part of a tour group a year ago. An American. I was treated better there than any trip I have ever been on. I was never worried about being followed or listened to, I followed the rules, listened to my guide and had a fantastic time. And your comment on not being fooled by Iran’s physical normalcy?? Don’t be fooled about what you read in the US media. That should be your message.

    And seriously, your title, Women visit the Enemy?? You might want to rethink that. It’s a beautiful place. Stop using stupid partisan hatred to get clicks. You are appealing to the lowest common denominator, not travellers.

  2. Your reports seem very biased,and seem to reinforce stereotypes of racial ethinic differences without extoling the virtues.
    So little insight, the highlight being a telephone in the shahs palace,
    My suggestion is don,t travel it doesn,t seem to broaden your horizons.

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